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Awakenings
May 2004

In this issue:

Awakening Journeys: Transforming Our World

Sponsor A Workshop

Girls Learn International™, Inc

"Down Under In Nepal" by Lin Rosney

Spotlight On Saathi: Helping Street Children In Nepal

Unkept Promises For The Women Of Afghanistan by Sima Wali

Jagriti Workshop - Spiritual Lessons from the Land of Oz

Olakh Demands Justice For Indian Woman

 




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DOWN UNDER IN NEPAL

by Lin Rosney

Journal writing is a powerful tool for awakening to one's potential. All Jagriti Bridging Worlds volunteers receive beautiful journals and are encouraged to record their innermost thoughts on a daily basis. To share their experiences with others, our BW volunteers have also agreed to submit regular journal entries for our website. This is a great way to give family, friends and "armchair travelers" a dynamic view of life as a Bridging Worlds volunteer. Below are some excerpts from the online journal of Lin Rosney from Australia who volunteered with Saathi in Nepal from February to April. For more details and to read the journals of other volunteers, please click here   Lin Rosney

3/10/04     Week 1.5
Namaste - Tapailai kasto cha? (hello - how are you)

Under the watchful eye of Kurt Cobain (there about 6 giant posters framed and hung around the Internet shop) I have come to the conclusion that what Australian culture could benefit from (actually what it really needs) is a nationally sanctioned water fight! Absurd perhaps? But a reality in India and Nepal annually. On Saturday we celebrated the Hindu festival of Holi - the festival of colours. Basically every man, woman and child proceeds to use water pistols, balloons, plastic bags, hoses and garbage bins full of water to completely saturate anyone within a 20-meter radius. To make matters more interesting (and to the delight of washing powder advertisers the previous week), coloured dye is added to the water and coloured tikka is smeared over everyone's faces (supposedly a blessing but I think really just for the fun of it!). The fantastic thing about the celebration is that there is no one on the sidelines saying, "Oh no I'd rather not get wet" as you would probably hear in an Australian version.

So watch out everyone, our first BBQ on my return will be "Holi down under" and no one will be spared (and yes I know it's almost winter in May but that will be about the temperature it is in Kathmandu at the moment so it will only make it all the more authentic!)

3/15/04     Lin the Tourist

After taking about an hour for what should be a 15-minute walk from Thamel (main tourist area), I arrived at Durbar Square (historical centre of Kathmandu)…The first temple we went to was small and the intricate woodcarvings were certainly very beautiful - but the most interesting thing was who lived in the temple - Kumari, the living child-goddess. Basically, a few hundred years ago the King miffed off a goddess by trying to grope her, so she cursed him and then he cried like a baby so she relented and said she would come back as a child and he better treat her good then. So every few years (when the existing goddess reaches 12-13 years) a new goddess is chosen. Several 4-5 year old girls are put through tests including being locked in a dark room overnight with scary noises and face masks and whoever comes out the bravest is the new Kumari. She is taken from her family (with their permission) and lives in the little temple. She is brought out a few times a year to parade around the city on a chariot. She is given education and a pension when she gets too old.

I looked up at the balcony where I could hear the child (oops, sorry - goddess) playing wondering what it must be like to be a living goddess. I was answered when a yellow Tonka truck came tumbling over the railing missing my head by about centimetres.

3/23/04     NEWSFLASH

Well I was going to write you a little story about what the food is like over here - as so many of you have asked.....but NEWSFLASH!

On Friday evening at 9pm I make debut as a Nepali TV star! That's right. I was discovered as I walked to work yesterday (always knew it would only be a matter of time). This big van with tinted windows drove past and about 5 Nepali guys were leaning out very obviously staring at me....I put on my best "I'm a tough western women don't mess with me face" (you get good practice at it) and kept walking. Next thing I knew, the van pulled up a the guys jumped out. They explained they were from a very famous Nepali Current Affairs satire show and they needed a person to play a foreigner part and could I do it that day. Still a little suspicious I said sure and gave them my work phone number.

So I went to work and everyone knew about the show and all thought it was a great laugh. So Santosh (the director) and his crew came to the office at about 4.30pm (after supposed to be there at 3pm - but that's about right in "Nepali Time") and everyone was very excited. Santosh said, "Did you tell them I was coming?" I said, "No, I just said a guy from a TV show." He said, "Well they all know who I am you know." Oops - sorry!

So basically I played a London boss talking to a Nepali employee who was just about to go on holidays to Kathmandu. They set the London scene by throwing a big heavy snow jacket on the back of the chair and I got to say great lines like "you are a very nice lady, I think you will come back to work here again."

Santosh said I have great potential to be an actress........mmmmmm.....goodbye accountancy!.....although the hubby may say I always have been an excellent Drama Queen!!

Unfortunately you'll just have to take my word for it as I don't know anyone with a video recorder!

3/24/04     Serious Stuff

Saathi means friend in Nepali. It is an NGO that has been running since 1992. It was originally set up to provide advocacy and shelter to victims of domestic violence, which up to that point was basically a no-go discussion area in Nepal. Since then they have expanded their programs to include street children and cross border trafficking of women (which is still happening at an alarming rate - and often even if the women are returned they are socially stigmatized and abused).

They run a shelter for the women and street children and a drop in centre where street children can come for short-term needs (food, medical, informal education and short-term accommodation). Where possible they provide counseling to the children and their families in an attempt to re-unite the child with the family. Often the children are on the streets due to the extreme poverty of their families (as well as alcohol and sexual abuse) so Saathi provides the family with a scholarship to send the children to school to encourage the parents to keep them at home.

In both Kathmandu and rural Nepal, they have set up income generation projects for the women victims to restore their self-esteem and provide them hope for the future to be economically independent. (There is no social welfare system for the women to rely on like in western countries, and very often a women without a husband or other male family members to look after her is completely socially excluded.)

As well as direct intervention programs, they also run educational workshops and rallies to raise community awareness and also lobby the government for the change in discriminatory laws. For example citizenship can only be gained through the father - if a street child was not registered at birth (often happens) and he doesn't know who his father is, he/she is officially not a citizen of Nepal and therefore can be denied basic rights and job opportunities later in life.


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